My ability to understand people makes me go to my job. Suspicion of bi polar or schizophrenia. Bigger ideas flood and occupy your mind even as chums prattle on about a stupid movie or pop culture. I truly believe he saved me, he kept me from becoming lost. The high energy days when you interact with people only to have the crash come afterward and all you want to do is sleep and be left alone.
This is how I ended up on this forum because I was researching more about how I function best. If you relate to most of these 21 signs, the answer just might be yes. Thus, compatibility is a huge factor. Good to know that there is a reason for being this way. It can serve as an aid and check to their Ni-Fe, helping them discern where their ideas might fit into existing categories and frameworks of knowledge. They have a different, and usually more profound, way of looking at the world.
My cosmetic surgery visions have taken its toll on my family, I envision complete perfection and will do whatever it takes to forever be young and beautiful. Even if doing so does not provide them with immediate solutions to the problem at hand, they tend to feel better once they have expressed their feelings, whether through words or tears. One of my strengths is communication and yet o need time alone a lot and deep down shy too. You may get hurt pretty bad in the process. The cognitive functions go much deeper than what can be learned from a personality test result.
Thank you all for sharing your experiences, and to Michaela also. Shortly after I married my lovely wife she found my dog at my parents house and she asked questions so I told her the story. His good points just don't make up for these things. Real friend is rare to me, i had lots of friend before, and i am really easy to make friends because I really like to help others, i like to be needed and i like to make some difference positive impact to people who needs help. I have a lot of social anxiety with those types… not because I personally care what they think or say, but because what I do affects my kid… And if I have to interact with those types, especially in an overstimulating environment, I find it totally exhausting. Just have some faith and keep fighting to achieve your dreams! It will be very painful. The same stands if you are thinking about changing career paths.
Wow…It almost seems so insulting and preposterous for this to even be? This could most definitely change over time. Self-motivator Because of your introverted tendencies, you may also be more inclined to work behind the scenes. Being an extrovert type of introvert is also kind of confusing but yeah, it does makes sense to me. As a child I was very shy, and always was the wise one. The hardest part about this personality is that you feel as if you are not really living life 100%. I feel like it keeps life interesting.
A relationship for me isn't just being married or having a kid, it goes way beyond the mortal coils. I finally see why NoBody gets me! However, there are some careers that might better match your personal talents, mode of thinking, or natural behavior. Rather than help individuals, they look for ways to change the system. If everyone is special then that means no one is special. This personality has a natural need to contribute to society, and from there, to dream while awake in order to act with conviction and determination.
I feel sad when I look at animals in zoos because they are caged up and deprived of their freedom. I just started out doing the research, and that is what brought me here. The work place is a different ball game! And all this internal cacophony serves to create a bottleneck, which we have to verbalize. So at least you have a kindred soul here in me. I struggle daily with holding down a corporate job which I do, and hate it , trying to be happy in a marriage my third, and frequently unhappy despite trying so hard to be happy — it alludes me constantly and maintain friendships people flock to me and want to be around me. As you grow and have different experiences, you may find some traits change to match your evolving life or worldview.
The Briggs use the Keirsey Temperament Sorter developed by David Keirsey to group the personalities based on a test taken. Because of all of my experiences, as a rule, I don't trust people. As my own world grows bigger, my presence in this world shrinks more and more. This test is based on the psychological types developed by Carl Jung, defined throughout his clinical experience. The Poet is grateful to those who explain her rules, laws, and formalities. Happy I found this site! I have thought about careers in management to make a positive impact to my group, although my natural introversion really gets in the way.
In such instances, any deviation from their ideal may feel like the end of the world. I had to hang up on him , I had to cut us off completely. There is no better type suited to create wrong or right movements successfully. I take things very personally and I try not to. So, like some of your other replies have indicated, these things may change over time and with experience. These phases roughly correspond to the ordering of the functional stack, with Ni being the first function to blossom, Fe the second, on so on. This article contains affiliate links.
It makes a lot of sense to me and I can relate to everything written about the personality type. I have often wished I could just be normal…. But as long as I live, I won't allow injustices like this to happen without fighting them to the best of my abilities. I also don't trust other people that easily because at the slightest change that I don't like in their behavior, it's gonna leave a bad taste in my mouth that won't go away that easy. They have an understanding of the bigger picture.